Thank you to kitters{Puck} for the following links

kink-aware professionals http://www.ncsfreedom.org/kap

poly friendly professionals http://polychromatic.com/pfp/psych.html  us +canada everything from doctors to therapists

Massive all around info site http://www.fetishexchange.org  if they don't have it it may be hard to find

on BDSM and pregnancy http://www.bdsmlife.net/alandra/bdsman.html

the new subs info packet has links to lots of stuff good for tops and bottoms
http://www.steel-door.com/Sub_Packet.html just oodles and oodles of links

Awesome safety related site..on all things safety in bdsm explore this one!
http://www.the-vox.com/safetymain.shtml

on the law and bdsm http://www.evilmonk.org/A/law00.cfm

http://www.domsub.info/main.html this is exactly what it says it is on a wide variety of tropics from safety to hygiene to care of toys

the hanky code...not often used anymore, but is neat to see http://sexuality.org/l/bdsm/hanky.html 
 

Books of Interest

NON-FICTION

Bound to be Free - The S/m Experience by J.J. Madison and Charles Moser

Different Loving, the World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by Gloria Brame, William Brame, and Jon Jacobs

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexaul Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller and Molly Devon

The O Letters: True Stories of Sadomasochism by Sir John

FICTION

Story of O by Pauline Reage

The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty by Anne Rice (A.N. Roquelaure)

Beauty's Punishment by Anne Rice (A.N. Roquelaure)

Beauty's Release by Anne Rice (A.N. Roquelaure)